You Do Not Have To Be Loved To Be Happy,
You Have To Learn What It Means To Be Loving."

Brenda Shoshanna, Ph.d. 


The Unshakeable Road To Love (Value Centered Relationships)

                               Review from The Writer’s Digest​

            "Countless books talk about relationship strengths, weaknesses, and goals, but this book bypasses the cliche to share smart insights. We're never bored. Author's insights are are unique but still have strong appeal for most readers.  This book is filled with thoughtful insights that you could think about all day. 

Author writes with a smart, natural, informative voice that we feel connected to from the start. WANT to listen, since we start so strongly with the opening insights. Nothing feels stilted but peppered with earned lessons.

This is a fresh, unique handling of this important subject, not in any way a rehash of what we see often in other books. There are very smart insights, such as 'is there a difference between pain and suffering?” 

The purpose is solid, the advice generous, and I love all of the action steps the author gives us for putting these insights into practice. Excellent guidance in the 'accepting all parts of yourself' subject. Well done. this work is stellar.
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"Well, she has done it again, Brenda Shoshanna, Ph.D. has produced another excellent, helpful book. Bringing together the wisdom of western psychology, world scriptures and the spirituality of Zen, she makes a marriage that makes sense.

  Jon Mundy
​Course In Miracles
 

    The book is based upon Eternal Principles from all world scriptures, including Zen. These natural, enjoyable principles build a foundation for relationships where happiness and well being are inevitable.

​Discover The Difference Between Real and Counterfeit Love

The book explores the difference between Real and Counterfeit Love, and shows how all our suffering is simply due to being caught in the  trap of Counterfeit Love. 

A guide through relationship myths and mirages, the book includes Pillars of Love, Turning Points, Exercises and Interventions, which can be applied directly in all our relationships. ​As we do, pain, upset and conflict often dissolve on the spot.

"This book truly offers a Radical Alternative to relationships as we know them. The words heal on the spot as the light of love shines through our broken heartedness and removes the darkness."

​Michiko J. Rolek, Author, Life Coach, Great granddaughter of Sokei-an Shigestsu Sassaki, First Zen Patriarch in the West.

"This is a profound book. It will help a lot of suffering." Pawel Wojtasik, Artist, Film Maker​.   
    
      
Talks, Workshops and A Course Based upon The Book Are Available

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